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Soccer star's team grows: Christie Rampone gives birth to daughter - Asbury Park Press

Soccer star's team grows: Christie Rampone gives birth to daughter
Asbury Park Press
She was scheduled for a natural childbirth, but after four hours of labor and rising blood pressure, an emergency C-section was performed under the ...

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Mar 9, Hopefully <3
Seeing this made me wonder for sure about my hips not being wide enough. im 20 and engaged... my fiance and I just found out that were going to have a
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Rebecca Gayheart & Eric Dane Welcome A Daughter
Rebecca Gayheart and Eric Dane have welcomed their first child, a baby girl, a rep for the couple has announced. The baby was born Wednesday in Los Angeles. “Mother, father and daughter are doing great,” shared their rep. The baby’s name was not released. Rebecca, 38, and Eric, 37 — who wed in Las Vegas in 2004 — never [...]
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Mar 9, trying to get prego
WOW! omg I just can't imagine going threw this, I give this lady props that is a big-o-baby! I am scared
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What’s YOUR Question?
Can I trust my body? Can I trust my intuition? Will my body open? Will I be a good mom? Will I be able to handle pain? Every woman has a question they ask themselves while pregnant; something they desperately need answered before they give birth. It is a question which is common to many other women, but it is [...]
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Gisele Bündchen Credits Women As a Family's 'Core' - Celebrity Baby Blog (blog)

Gisele Bündchen Credits Women As a Family's 'Core'
Celebrity Baby Blog (blog)
Determined to spread the word about the wonders of natural childbirth, Gisele opens up about her own “intense and life-changing experience” when she ...

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Mar 9, Nutrition for a Healthy Pregnancy
Eating for two? Tip-top nutrition is vital to ensure your baby is fit and healthy.
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New York Times Examines Factors Affecting VBAC Rates As NIH Conference Begins
The New York Times on Tuesday examined efforts to increase rates of vaginal births after caesarean sections at the Tuba City Regional Health Care Corporation, a small hospital run by the Navajo Nation and financed partially by the Indian Health Services...
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Free hospital delivery improves rural women's lives - China Daily

Free hospital delivery improves rural women's lives
China Daily
Yang Yingju, director of the maternal clinic of Huishui County, says that since 2005, pregnant women can get 500 yuan for a natural birth and 800 yuan for a ...

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Mar 9, Shivvers
ugh, why I dont want to do hospital birth. Why do they have to PULL the baby out like that, it seems so rough and unneeded! I'll be having my baby at home,
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Mar 9, worth it but it looks so scarey
OMG I so want to wait to have a kid it looks so painful and disgusting, but I know at the end it's worth it but it looks so scary
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Mar 9, SOMETIMES NATURAL ISN'T ALWAYS POSSIBLE
THIS DOES SEEM A NICE NATURAL BIRTH, AND I KNOW IT'S THE DONE THING THING THESE DAYS TO HAVE A NATURAL BIRTH WITH LITTLE OR NO MEDICAL INTERVENTION, WHICH
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Have You Checked Out Our Fertility Forums?

Have you checked out our fertility message boards lately? You can come by to ask questions, vent, introduce yourself, or offer other members support. Trying to conceive isn't easy to do, and you don't need to do it all by yourself.

Come join us!

Have You Checked Out Our Fertility Forums? originally appeared on About.com Fertility on Wednesday, March 10th, 2010 at 11:07:28.

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RIP Precious Layla Grace
I read Layla Grace’s blog for the first time last week.  I read the whole blog while crying my eyes out.  I’ve been praying for a miracle for her, or at least to make the pain go away in her final days. Her blog hasn’t been updated in a couple of days, but I saw a [...] Related posts:
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Gaining Weight in Pregnancy


With my most recent pregnancy, I didn't gain as much as I had with previous pregnancies. Partly because it's just the way it worked out and partially because the newer recommendations are to gain a bit less these days. You're probably wondering what is going to happen with your pregnancy weight gain. Unfortunately, pregnancy is not the time to go carte blanche and eat all you want, you are still subject to adding those extra party pounds. Remember weight gain doesn't have to be the first sign of pregnancy! I did read recently that the average weight gain, in general, is one pound over the holidays, but when you're pregnant it's more of making every bite count. So while you can still enjoy yourself, just remember that moderation is the key to avoiding those extra pregnancy pounds.


In fact, in one study about pregnancy weight gain in women who are obese (BMI above 29), it is being said that not only do they not need to gain a lot of weight, but a neutral gain and even a loss may be perfectly acceptable for these patients. One of the studies talked about the benefits of weight loss in pregnancy, as far as preventing some diseases like pregnancy induced hypertension (PIH), gestational diabetes (GD) and it could even help lower the c-section rates. Though, as with any medical study there may be flaws. So before you jump on the band wagon, make sure you read an alternate view before you leap.


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Gestational Weight Gain and Pregnancy Outcomes in Obese Women How Much Is Enough? Deborah W. Kiel. Obstetrics & Gynecology 2007;110:752-758

Gaining Weight in Pregnancy originally appeared on About.com Pregnancy & Childbirth on Tuesday, March 9th, 2010 at 08:55:04.

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Gisele Bundchen: "Giving Birth Was the Most Intense Experience of My Life" - Us Magazine

Us Magazine

Gisele Bundchen: "Giving Birth Was the Most Intense Experience of My Life"
Us Magazine
Gisele Bundchen may have said that labor didn't hurt "in the slightest," but she does admit that her natural childbirth was "a powerful experience. ...
Gisele Bündchen Credits Women As a Family's 'Core'Celebrity Baby Blog (blog)
Gisele Bündchen: "I Am A Very Happy & Proud Mother"Celebrity Baby Scoop (blog)

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Women's Group Support Can Improve Birth Outcomes
Community support groups can reduce neonatal mortality, and lower rates of maternal depression-provided that the population coverage is wide enough and the programmes are appropriately designed. These are the conclusions of two Articles, published Online First in The Lancet. Participatory women's groups have shown promise in trials in Nepal, reducing neonatal mortality by about one-third...
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The Spirit of the 17-Miler
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Slings to Get Warning

The Consumer Product Safety Commission (CPSC) is preparing to release a statement of warning for sling users. There have been some injuries and even seven deaths for infants in slings. Some of these accidents happened when there was equipment failure, like the sling broke and the baby fell out. Other concerns are the position of the baby and ensuring that the baby doesn't lay facing the wearer's body and smother in the clothing of the wearer. No specific sling manufacturer has been called out.

While I believe that every parent should always consider that any product that you use has limits and risks. The CPSC notes many infant injuries and deaths every year from other products like baby cribs, strollers and toys. All infant gear should be used with a watchful eye, meaning that statement that says "Adult Supervision Required" means just that.

So don't panic over the new announcement. Slings have simply gained enough popularity that there is now a notable number of people using them. And as that number goes up, warnings for using common sense must be used.

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Slings to Get Warning originally appeared on About.com Pregnancy & Childbirth on Tuesday, March 9th, 2010 at 16:51:25.

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1 in 5 At-Risk U.S. Babies Doesn't Get Hepatitis B Vaccine (HealthDay)
HealthDay - MONDAY, March 8 (HealthDay News) -- About one in five babies born to mothers with hepatitis B aren't getting treatments that have been shown to prevent the infection in newborns, a new study finds.
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Mar 9, ignorance showing through
that was so f&king nasty I really wanted to deliver babies now I don't know it I want to any more omg that was so nasty.....that lady was fat and had
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Self-discovery - The Spokesman Review

Self-discovery
The Spokesman Review
Some other uses for hypnotherapy include aid for natural childbirth, as well as physical illnesses like hypertension and stress-induced asthma, ...

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Novel Program Translates Behavioral And Social Science Research Into Treatments To Reduce Obesity
Under a $7.1 million grant from the National Institutes of Health, Rush University Medical Center is developing a novel program, called WISHFIT, to help pre-menopausal women reduce visceral fat through a sustained increase in physical activity and reduction in stress...
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NIH VBAC Conference
I spent all day today at the NIH VBAC Conference. You can catch the rest of the conference tomorrow on Webcast. My head is aching from listening to fourteen presentations, breaking only for lunch. It is also bursting with questions....
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Preemie Spotlight - Cheyenne

Summer, an About.com reader, posted this story to the forum this week. Her daughter, Cheyenne, was born at 32 weeks due to fetal distress. During her 6 weeks in the NICU, Cheyenne battled many issues, including IVH, reflux, and apnea. Happily, Cheyenne is now 10 weeks old, at home with her family, and thriving.

If you would like your child featured in a Preemie Spotlight, please share your story or post it to the forum.

Preemie Spotlight - Cheyenne originally appeared on About.com Preemies on Wednesday, March 10th, 2010 at 00:38:39.

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Mar 9, Shaven!
It's nice to see that she took the time to ensuure she was well cropped at the time of videoing her giving birth. The visual efffect would have been spoiled


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Product Review: Ancient Minerals Magnesium Products
Magnesium is a mineral acknowledged by scientists and doctors for being essential to certain body functions and deficiencies of it are linked to migrains, attention deficit disorder, asthma and allergies. I have heard of people ingesting magnesium, a natural occurring mineral, as a dietary supplement, but never rubbing it on the skin topically. But apparently the people from Ancient Minerals
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Mar 9, Smarter than you.
Those people are IDIOTS! Who in their right mind would do such dangerous thing? They were just lucky nothing negative happened
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Natural Birth: Five Alternatives to C-Sections - ABC News

Natural Birth: Five Alternatives to C-Sections
ABC News
You should, of course, ask your doctor if you are considering any of these natural methods. Why are a growing number of mothers at risk during childbirth? ...

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Utah Gov. Signs Revised Bill Allowing Criminal Charges Against Women For Illegal Abortions
Utah Gov. Gary Herbert (R) on Monday signed a bill (HB 462) that would allow prosecutors to bring criminal homicide charges against women who arrange illegal abortions, the Salt Lake Tribune reports (Gehrke, Salt Lake Tribune, 3/8). An earlier version of the bill (HB 12), sponsored by state Rep...
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World could soon shield "most newborns" from HIV (AFP)
AFP - Within five years the world could shield all newborns from HIV, while making strides in reducing deaths from malaria and tuberculosis, the Global Fund to fight the three diseases said Monday.
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Low-Income Women Living In Small Cities Have Higher Chance Of Obesity
A recent Kansas State University study found that the availability of supermarkets -- rather than the lack of them -- increased the risk of obesity for low-income women living in small cities. This suggests that policies to increase healthful eating behaviors might need to be tailored based on geographic location...
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Mar 10, Horrified
I can't believe that doctor just tugged on that baby to get it out...how is that natural....I'm sure mom could have contracted a few more times to get
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Mar 9, Kate
They are lucky the baby is alive. So many thing can go wrong in childbirth. If you want to waterbirth, do it in a hospital with staff nearby - or at least
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Sita in Georgia – Hypnobabies Instructor of the Week
Sita Payne Romero, LMT, CD (DONA), HCHI 770-627-3567 doulasita@yahoo.com www.BirthInBliss.com Atlanta, GA and surrounding areas Certified Hypnobabies Childbirth Hypnosis Instructor Licensed Massage Therapist Certified in Bodywork for the Childbearing Year DONA-Certified Doula Certified Infant Massage Instructor Hypnobabies Classes, Infant Massage Instruction, Doula Services, Prenatal and Postpartum Therapeutic Massage, Expectant Couples Partner Massage Classes I realized my calling when I experienced the beauty of life through my [...]
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Mar 9, amazing and beautiful! but i need help so please if anyone wants 2 respond 2 this. please do
that was 100 amazing! im a young teen (14) and I kinda want 2 have a baby soon but im afraid 2. my boyfriend wants 2 but im afraid of THAT! i just dont
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Mar 9, WOW
wow im.im expecting and this is very beautiful to actually see how it is performed this is so beautiful.wo
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Equal Rights And Opportunities For Women And Girls Essential For Better Health
Today, on International Women's Day, the world reflects on how to ensure equal rights and opportunities for women and girls. Everyone must fight against discrimination and inequalities that compromise the health of women and girls around the world...
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Mar 9, Awesome!!
Wow! Indeed Very Powerful! Keep in mind sea salt water is a natural disinfectant...it's the best and only thing I use on fresh piercings, any thing else
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Mar 9, Beautiful
I have had both my children giving normal birth no painkillers... First one at 26 years and second at 33. I was extremely exhausted after the last one.
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Questioning The Benefits Of Elective Removal Of Ovaries During Hysterectomy: Evidence Suggests Procedure May Do More Harm Than Good
Removal of the ovaries (bilateral oophorectomy) while performing a hysterectomy is common practice to prevent the subsequent development of ovarian cancer. This prophylactic procedure is performed in 55 percent of all US women having a hysterectomy, or approximately 300,000 times each year...
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Controlled Study Finds Possible Early Warning Signs For Autism Spectrum Disorders Within Families
A new study suggests a trend toward developing hyperactivity among typically developing elementary-school-aged siblings of autistic preschoolers and supports the notion that mothers of young, autistic children experience more depression and stress than mothers with typically developing children...
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Whip Out the Girls to Slim Down
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6 Questions to Ask About VBAC

The NIH has been holding a consensus meeting this past week on vaginal birth after cesarean (VBAC). In their draft statement, they talk about six questions to ask your practitioner about VBAC. Have you been watching the live webcast? Did you submit questions about the draft? I'd love to hear your thoughts...


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6 Questions to Ask About VBAC originally appeared on About.com Pregnancy & Childbirth on Wednesday, March 10th, 2010 at 09:15:19.

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Gorillas in the bliss - Austrian Times

Gorillas in the bliss
Austrian Times
When dad is a 400lb silverback and mum could break a man's arm with a flick of her wrist, natural childbirth can be a bit risky when you're a baby gorilla. ...

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Mar 9, Great video!
As the mom of two already and currently 30 weeks along with my 3rd, I have never seen birth like this before. I plan on going natural this time and this
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Lily’s Birth from Mom AND Dad’s point of view.
Lily’s Birth as told by her daddy, Trevor… Lily was born Monday at 8:24am. All natural, a healthy Hypno-Baby! Kendra was absolutely amazing!!! 3am, Sunday night – Kendra felt some pressure. More of a “menstrual cramp” type of pressure. I timed her waves and they were 2 mins. apart! But she was so relaxed. We went [...]
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Mar 9, I didnt like this
Hi I didnt like this at all, the ocean is full of crap, infection and I'm sure people urinate in the ocean if we are all truthful. I just didnt feel it
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Jenna Elfman Welcomes Her Second Son
Jenna Elfman, 38, and husband Bodhi Elfman welcomed son Easton Quinn Monroe Elfman early Tuesday morning (March 2nd) in Los Angeles. Jenna announced the happy news via Twitter Friday, writing, “He’s an impressive sleeper (thank god!)& I’m his biggest fan. Thank you all so much for your kind words and congrats. We really appreciate it.” This little boy joins [...]
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Mar 9, SO BEAUTIFUL
LOVE IT LOVE IT LOVE IT THANK YO
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Pregnancy 101: How To Maximize Your Chances Of Conceiving A Female
Are you thinking about having a baby and you would like for that baby to be a girl? You do not have to spend a ton of money to have a certain sex of baby. Getting pregnant is a science and there are certain facts about science that you can use in order to have a boy or a girl. There are some tips...
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Exercises And Stretches That Ease Menstrual Cramp Pain
  Menstruation is often associated with symptoms, like bloating, fatigue, painkillers for menstrual cramps relief, others try various methods to relieve menstrual cramps. The following are some of the methods which can help you relieve menstrual cramps. Some of the...
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Four Key Vitamins And Nutrients For Maximizing Fertility And Getting Pregnant: Folic Acid, Calcium, Dha, And Vitamin D
Most moms-to-be know good nutrition starts in the womb. By getting the proper balance of vitamins and minerals while pregnant, a mother can help set her unborn baby on the road to lifelong health. While a good diet can provide for most of a developing baby's needs, some vital nutrients are nearly...
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Early Pregnancy Morning Sickness: How To Reduce And Relieve Early Pregnancy Morning Sickness
The news of pregnancy surely brings a wave of joy to the soon to be parents, especially to the mother. However, the morning sickness that accompanies it can make one feel irritated and tired. Morning sickness is a feeling of nausea often associated with vomiting in women who are pregnant. Though ...
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Fertility Foods: Fats, Fiber, Complex Carbohydrates, And Soy - Essential Foods To Increase Your Fertility
The food that you eat has an impact on every single cell in your body and the old adage, "You Are What You Eat" certainly rings true. If you are wanting to know how to get pregnant fast, then your diet probably has more of an impact than you will ever realize. Good nutrition cer...
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